Stop thinking about what they’re thinking about you.
"Nostalgia is denial - denial of the painful present. The name for this denial is golden age thinking; the erroneous notion that a different time period is better than the one ones living in. It’s a flaw in the romantic imagination of those people who find it difficult to cope with the present."
"You either like me or you don’t. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don’t have that kinda time to convince somebody else."